Cruelty

Life is difficult for everyone in different ways. Each of us has something to contend with - problems to solve, worries to carry, health struggles, aches and pains that others may never see. Wise people understand this. Because of that understanding, they try to treat everyone they encounter with at least a basic level of respect, and when they can, with kindness as well. They recognise that their own suffering is no reason to make someone else's day worse than it may already be.

And yet, there are people who seem to take pleasure in trying to make others feel small or miserable. Perhaps they assume the person they are being cruel to has no difficulties of their own. Perhaps they feel envious of something another person has achieved, something they believe they themselves could never accomplish. Often it is insecurity that drives people to belittle others.

So when you encounter this kind of behaviour, try not to let it weigh you down. Instead, be grateful that your own hardships have not filled you with bitterness. You are coping with life far better than those who lash out at others. If anything, feel a little pity for them, because they have yet to realise that cruelty never eases suffering - it only deepens it.