Thursday, 14 January 2021

Creating Utopia

People often ask me about what would be a solution to the problems we are facing in modern societies. So many seem to think that if we take money from the rich and give it to the poor to make everyone equal we would suddenly live in a wonderful utopia. Unfortunately, that isn't true.

So what options do we currently have and why don't they work?

I am not going to use political terms to describe these systems because most people cannot see past those and don't realise that even when a “side” seems to be the complete opposite, it amounts to the same thing.

One of the systems we have is where the leaders control everything and own everything under the guise that it all belongs to the people. The citizens have their land and homes seized by the government. No one owns anything, they have to depend on the government for everything and they only get things from the government when they work like slaves to earn it. Some of these systems claim that they will look after those who can't work, but the reality is always much worse. The elderly and disabled are seen as a waste of food and resources that could be used for the fit healthy workers and so often times they are secretly euthanased by these regimes. The other people are powerless to do anything to help these vulnerable people because they themselves have no extra money, they are very poor and they themselves rely on whatever the government will give them. No one has the opportunity to move up in this system, they remain poor, like everyone else apart from those who are at the top, for their entire life. But the uncreative, the unintelligent and the unimaginative people like this system, they feel “equal” to everyone else.

The wealthy are protected in the system because they run the government and they own all the large government-run organisations where the rest of the population work.

The other system allows people to feel freer. They are told they can decide upon a few different choices that they vote for, all of them preach different ideas but they all amount to the same thing with just a few slightly different policies to appeal to people from different backgrounds. In this system people can own a house and a car, they must pay high taxes to the government on everything they earn and they can with luck, innovation, or hard work move up the ladder to become one of the wealthy. In this system, the poor workers wish they could have the other system above and would want that everyone is brought down to their level and so they wouldn't feel so envious. The middle classes have a few more luxuries but have to work very hard. The wealthy get taxed too, but the mega-rich who run everything always have ways and means to get out of that.

Both of these systems protect those who are running everything behind the scenes, and both systems have the rest of the people working like slaves their entire lives, the latter allowing for a short retirement if you last that long before dropping dead.

Neither of these systems are ideal, of course, the latter is better in so many ways. But because there are so many people these days it isn't like we can go back to small tribes and have barter, care and share systems, where everyone works doing the thing they are naturally drawn to and everyone helps out with the more mundane matters.

We also can't just take all the money in the world and spread it out equally, not when there are so many people. You might ask why. Well, think about it, if everyone on the planet suddenly won the lottery and knew they would have enough money to live off comfortably for the rest of their lives what do you think would happen? Everyone would instantly quit their jobs of course. We would have no Doctors, no nurses, no rubbish collections, no food grown/processed/packed/sold, the same for cars, clothes and everything else. We would all have lots of money but there would be nothing left to spend it on. No holidays to go on because there would be no one to fly us there.

It is very naive of anyone to think that someone works in mundane fields just for the fun it, because of course they don't. The whole system is set up to make sure everyone will be educated enough to perform certain duties that need doing to keep the society going and without those essential workers, there is no society.

So how can we make things fairer?

I'm afraid we can't, not while there are so many people. The only way would be to set up small tribes like the Theomerla project, but as we found out, people aren't ready for that, they feel more secure when they are working full time and paying taxes to the government. And even if the Theomerla dream came true we would still need to leave our sanctuary to visit the dentist, doctors and get surgery if we needed it. Unless the tribe managed to get people who were qualified in those things and knew what they were doing, which is again very difficult without the current system teaching them and providing them with the latest technology.

What we can do to improve things though is be kinder to others and not be so judgemental. Let's all be more willing to realise that everyone on this planet is suffering in some way and we should not add to that. It is easy to assume someone is happy and having a wonderful life when you are not walking in their shoes, don't know their pain and how they cry themselves to sleep at night. It doesn't matter how rich or poor someone is, we all suffer and we all appreciate kindness.

We get such a short time here, better to not waste it being angry, resentful and envious of others.

Saturday, 31 October 2020

The racist origins of describing redheads as gingers.

I am making this post because it seems there are still so many ignorant people in the world who enjoy trying to belittle and bully others. Maybe they genuinely don't know the racist origins for the reason redheads are often described as "Gingers" and so I will make its origin very clear here. If you choose to continue to use the word to describe people with red hair after knowing its true origin I can only come to the conclusion that you are racist against Celts.

Ginger is not describing a hair colour

Yes that is right, read it again and let that sink in. The spice ginger is a blonde colour, it is not red or anything like the colour of a redheads hair. If you were going to use a spice to describe the colour of a redhead's hair you would use cinnamon, paprika, turmeric or even chilli, but ginger! No, it doesn't make sense and there is a very good reason for that, it has absolutely nothing to do with hair colour.

The English looking down on Celts as sub-human

The English have a long history of being hateful and degrading towards those with Celtic origins, they described them as stupid drunks, brutes, insinuate they have low intelligence and make cartoon drawings of them depicted as apes, this was especially prevalent in the 1800s. It isn't so easily accepted or tolerated these days, but the hate crimes towards Celts still continue every time someone describes a redhead as a "ginger".

How did being Celtic become associated with the spice ginger?

In the early 1800s an English biscuit company who made ginger biscuits "ginger nuts" decided to depict a stereotypical looking Celt on the side of the tins. The Celt was wearing a green suit, had red hair and blue eyes, they named this character "John Ginger". The English then started to call Celts "ginger nuts" or "gingers" at the time it didn't matter what colour their hair was but later it became that because so many Celts do have red hair. It soon moved on to describe red-haired animals too, especially hens and cats. It was supposed to be derogatory and implying the person was a joke and not very intelligent.

This ingrained a deep hatred towards those with the most Celtic looks, and the most Celtic look of all is red hair. England to this day is still awash with hatred and bullying towards those with red hair. Constantly called a ginger and taunted endlessly teenagers have committed suicide over it, people have been beaten up, purely because of the colour of their hair and families forced out their homes because the locals were throwing bricks at their homes and constantly abusing the entire family because they have red hair.

If this isn't a hate crime, what is?

Because it is so prevalent in England it is now treated as a hate crime, however, this doesn't stop ignorant people going about throwing the word at people with red hair and thinking it is ever so funny. If you do that you are nothing but a racist bigot.

Some examples:

This is just a small sample, you will find hundreds more if you look.

Monday, 5 October 2020


 I recently came under fire for some new designs I made and uploaded to my Redbubble shop. I am sure there is more than these that have caused offense, but I am talking about these right now:

Childless by choice, awesome by default.

So why would this cause so much offense?

People who don't want children are often accused of being selfish. I have personally never understood this. Yes, it means you don't have to spend your life bringing up children and giving up your own life for their sake, but when most people decide they are not going to have children it usually because they don't want to add to the problems the world is already facing with vast overpopulation and all the horrors that it causes.

What horrors does overpopulation cause you might ask?

More pollution, food shortages because there is less land to use for growing food and keeping animals. Destruction of forests to make way for more food production. Overcrowding causes humans to become depressed, angry, and stressed; which in turn leads to bad health, increased suicides, and an increase in crime, including violent crimes and murder.

What other reasons might someone decide to not have children?

Maybe they feel they are not in a good position to bring up children, maybe they have never met someone they would want to have children with or don't have the funds in place that would be needed to make sure their child has the best of everything. Maybe they have genetic conditions and they don't want to inflict their suffering on to their offspring. 

Sound selfish does it?

So what are the reasons people do decide to have children?

  • They decide they love themselves so much that they think their genes deserve to live on.
  • They don't care about any genetic defects they have that their children will also suffer from.
  • They are worried about what will happen to them when they are old and think that by having children there will be someone to look after them.
  • They feel like a failure and hope to get a second chance at their dreams through the life of their child.
  • They think it is their right to spread their genes.
  • They have been told by their religion that that is what they are supposed to do.
  • They made a mistake during the throws of lust and an unwanted pregnancy occurred and they decided to keep it.

From the above you can clearly see a pattern, they all seem to be ego-based and at the very least fear-based.

Which is why I have now coined the term "egofruits" for children. Yes, children are the fruit of their parent's massive egos.

No wonder they attack anyone who doesn't have children, they are trying to hide the truth they so vehemently try to cover up and project their selfish nature on to those who decided against having children.

So you see, when you are childless by choice, you really are awesome by default.

Say no to egofruits.

P.S. Don't be offended if you have children, I still love you and your egofruits.

Sunday, 2 August 2020

Find The Truth

Truth isn't easy to find, no one is just going to hand it to you. It doesn't come through faith, it doesn't come from believing what you are told and it doesn't come from an authority. Only a skeptic can ever hope to find it because they will question everything and everyone, and they will never believe without experiencing it for themselves.

There is a big price to pay for truth, it doesn't come free, nothing worth having ever did. You will suffer for having an inquiring mind, for not fitting in. You will probably be an outcast for daring to think for yourself.

But one thing you can be sure of; truth does not come to the believer - it is found by the skeptic.

Thursday, 26 March 2020

The New Sun King

Anyone who knows my work or has read my books will know the significance of 11.

Prince Charles, I believe, will never be King, he wasn't right for the role from day one. However, William was born on 21st June 1982 = 11. Not only born on the summer solstice on his birthday this year he will reach the age of 38 3+8=11. The new Sun King.

Prince Charles now has Covid-19 and it is believed he might have already had it before he last visited the Queen, meaning the Queen might have it too. If they were to both die of the new "Crown" virus that will leave the way clear for the new King.

That isn't all, his Queen Kate Middleton is also 38 right now = 11 and her date of birth 9th January 1982 = 3 she is the feminine that illuminates the King. It takes a Queen to make a King.

Let's see if this all plays out in the coming months, we live in interesting times.

For more about this and so you understand more what I am talking about, see the following:

Video: Numerology Life In Numbers 11:11 333 666 Magick Numbers

Video: The Alchemical Process

Article: Life In Numbers

Article: 11 & 333 Magick Numbers

Article: The Alchemical Process

Thursday, 20 July 2017

Visual, Auditory or Kinaesthetic?

It doesn't matter how down I am, or how horrible things get, there is one thing that always makes me feel better. It has been with me since I was a little girl, when I surrounded myself with it, dressed in it and collected as many things as possible that are it. That special warm wonderful thing is the colour purple. I have always loved it and it always manages to cheer me up.  Now all these years later it is still with me, making me feel all warm and fuzzy inside when I see its magnificence. I have always been a visual person and colours are very important to me. In the past I have liked other colours a lot as well, in phases, but no other colour has ever compared to purple, not ever. If you don't have a special colour, you are probably not a visual person. Although if the sight of something relaxes you more than anything else... like tree tops swaying, watching the sea, looking at a beautiful landscape, then you could be a visual person too.

Everyone has a sense that is more acute in them, three of the five sensory based modes seem to dominate in mental processing:

  • Visual thoughts - sight, mental imagery, spatial awareness.
  • Auditory (or linguistic) thoughts - sound, speech, dialogue, white noise.
  • Kinaesthetic (or proprioceptive) sense - somatic feelings in the body, temperature, pressure, and also emotion.

The other two senses, gustatory (taste) and olfactory (smell), which are closely associated, often seem to be less significant in general mental processing, and are often considered jointly as one.

If you are Auditory person music will comfort and relax you more than anything else, or even talking. An Auditory person is more likely to feel stressed in complete silence than the other groups. Hearing the singing of birds, the sea waves rolling in and out, or even white noise is much more relaxing to them.

Maybe you get comfort from being hugged, or wrapped up in something soft, or to touch soft textures more than anything else? Then you a Kinaesthetic person who is more in touch with feelings and needs to be touched, and feel textures against you to feel comforted.

Which are you? It is certainly something interesting to think about, and will also help you understand better what will cheer you up when you are feeling low.

First posted 8th December 2012 Source

Tuesday, 4 July 2017

Covert Narcissists & The Narcissists No One Ever Talks About

How so many fall into a pit of narcissistic abuse.

Don't ever think that you could not be fooled by a narcissist, they are much more prevalent than you think. The covert narcissist is much harder to spot, because unlike other narcissists who openly admit they think they are better than everyone else, the covert narcissist, who is much more dangerous, will often come across publicly like a pillar of the community. They will be involved in charities, religions and community projects. It would appear on the surface that these are good people, that they care, or even that they are altruistic.

The hard reality often is that these people are covert narcissists, who only partake in anything charitable at all because it helps them build up their fake public image. And they guard this fake public image that they work so hard on, ferociously. If you were to spot one of these covert narcissists and publicly unmask them, be prepared for wrath like you have never known. The covert narcissist will reveal their full fury to you and only to you, and they will set about ruining you, they do this so that you come across as the nasty person who wants to tarnish their squeaky clean holier than thou reputation. They will make sure you suffer.

So what should you do if you discover you are dealing with a covert narcissist?

If you can, remove yourself quietly, it might be tempting to try to expose them, but you are the one who will come off worse. They are experts at manipulation and they know how to get people to believe anything they say. They just have to show them the list of good deeds they have done and play the victim, they are good at playing the victim and they actually enjoy this kind of manipulation. Yes that is right, they will probably even tell people that is YOU who is a narcissist and they are just the poor victim.

Tactics to deal with the unmasked covert narcissist.

Whatever you do, don't lose your cool and have an outburst, they WILL push all your buttons, they will try to make you look like you are in the wrong and they are prefect and can do no wrong, they might even have you doubting yourself. But as soon as you lose your cool and have an outburst you have given them exactly what they want. They will use this outburst against you, to prove you are “angry” and “out of control”.

Get them out of your life as soon as possible. This is done by gradually cutting down contact, being less available to them, by being too busy with other things until eventually they will give in and look for a new supply.

Of course this is much harder if you are in a relationship and living with a narcissist, but still possible to become so distant and unavailable to them, while still being nice to them when they are there and pretending nothing is wrong, until they eventually leave on their own accord.

Remember, the more upset and stressed they make you, the more supply they get, so always remain calm around them and don't give them what they need. This forces them to move on.

Not everyone who does good is a narcissist.

Not everyone who does good deeds is a covert narcissist, there are genuinely good people out there who have hearts of gold and don't care about their reputation, they just enjoy helping and the love they get back from those they help to them is better than any other kind of gain. We cannot afford to be suspicious of everyone who does good things.

Then there are the narcissists no one ever talks about.

When someone has been the victim of a narcissist, it can take many years to heal and get over it, some never get over it and unfortunately this can create a new narcissist. The victim of a narcissist can become one themselves. Because their self esteem has been battered down repeatedly during a long relationship with a narcissist, they are emotionally and physically drained, and they need to spend many years building themselves back up and this is often done by draining others. They may suffer from depression and anxiety, they need constant reassurance that they are good enough and so it becomes that the narcissist has now created another narcissist.

One of the worse things about these narcissist victims is their constant need to protect themselves from other people, people who they think could be narcissists. Not only have they taken on the traits of the narcissist that abused them, they then try to accuse everyone else of being a narcissist and are eternally suspicious of everyone they encounter.

What can we do?

If someone says they were in an abusive relationship and are trying to heal, we cannot mend them by telling them how great they are, how much we respect them, how beautiful they are, how good they are at something... No amount of saying these things will ever get through to them. They won't believe you and all it does is drain you.

All we can ever do is tell someone that if they want to heal they must become self sufficient. So long as they need other people to reassure them, they will never heal.

As with all things, one must look within. It is something people will do anything to avoid, but is the only way.

“Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.”